Kevin Keller, Issue #1

Got a question that would scandalize your group chat? That’s what this column is for. Go Ask Alex is an anonymous space for queer readers to ask the questions they’re afraid to ask anyone else — about sex, love, life, and everything in between. It’s judgment-free and completely anonymous.Hey Alex, I'm writing about everybody's favorite topic: poop. We all know where we are playing, and we've all had an unpleasant surprise. The best top I've ever had when an accident happened said, "Looks like we hit pay dirt. Let's hop in the shower real quick." I really loved that. He made it something "we" had done, not something I had caused. The statement and the pause were collaborative and supportive, mutual. I want to know more good, non-shaming phrases like that to use, whether on bottom or on top, so "we," whether playmate or partner, stay in it together. Do you have any phrases like that? KR Keep Reading →