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Big Dipper said he gives hookups a false address to screen them—and fans have thoughts

Big Dipper said he gives hookups a false address to screen them—and fans have thoughts

Sloppy Seconds podcast Big Dipper Meatball joined by international drag superstar BenDelaCreme

The rapper admitted he gives potential hookups a false address before meeting up with them, drawing concerns from some folks online.

People are calling out rapper Big Dipper after he revealed on his Sloppy Seconds podcast that he sometimes gives out a false address to potential hookups so he can pre-judge them and ghost them if he wants.

“I sometimes give people my address, but not my apartment number, so I can look out the window,” Dipper told his cohost Meatball and their guest, Drag Race legend BenDelaCreme.

Meatball and BenDelaCreme looked confused, asking if he then sometimes ghosts the person, and doesn’t even tell them “thank you, but not for me.”

“What I actually do is give them the apartment number across the street, and then when I see them looking around, I’ll be like, ‘oh, I’m across the street in this unit,’ and then they’ll come over.”

“But if not then they’re banging on that person’s door?” Meatball asked, bewildered.

“If they wanna bang on the door!” Dipper laughed in response. “I’m saying it’s clearly an apartment, it’s not like a house across the street.”

“That’s kind of mean Dipper,” Meatball replied.

“Well it’s just a safety precaution for me,” Dipper defended. “These are guys that I’m messaging with no photos, completely random.”

“You thought we were all gonna be on your side, and now it’s like, ‘you might be sick,’” Meatball interjected.

“So when you glance out the window, what are you looking for that’s making you decide whether to be this cruel?” BenDelaCreme asked.

“If I’m attracted to them or not,” Dipper admitted. “He only waited in the car for like, 20 or 30 minutes of messaging me, ‘are you not there? Are you coming?’”

“Dela this is f*cked up, huh?” Meatball asked.

“This is deeply f*cked up,” BenDela confirmed.

@sloppypod Is @bigdipperjelly messed up for doing this?? #podcast #dragqueen #rupaulsdragrace #storytime #lgbtq #queer #fypシ ♬ original sound - Sloppy Seconds ✨

Sloppy Seconds used the clip to promo the show, sharing it on TikTok and Twitter, but interestingly, the exchange is not included in the longer YouTube video of the podcast episode.

The Sloppy Seconds X (formerly Twitter) account asked if listeners thought Big Dipper was “messed up for doing this,” and they took no time in letting their thoughts be known on this practice.

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Mey Rude

Mey Rude is a journalist and cultural critic who has been covering queer news for a decade. The transgender, Latina lesbian lives in Los Angeles with her fiancée.

Mey Rude is a journalist and cultural critic who has been covering queer news for a decade. The transgender, Latina lesbian lives in Los Angeles with her fiancée.