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John Whaite 'Still Loves' Strictly Dance Partner Johannes Radebe
The Great British Bake Off winner competed in season 19 of Strictly Come Dancing.
Best known for winning the third season of The Great British Bake Off, John Whaite is one of the most popular gay reality TV stars in the UK.
In 2021, Whaite competed on Strictly Come Dancing with partner Johannes Radebe, becoming the first all-male same-sex pairing of the show. Together, Whaite and Radebe finished as the runners-up of the competition.
During a recent interview with The Times, Whaite revealed that he actually “fell in love” with Radebe after meeting him on Strictly. He added, “I can’t speak for him – because I’m not allowed to, legally – but it felt like there was love there.” This might be related to contractual obligations that professional dancers on Strictly can’t get romantically attached to their partners in the series, but Whaite doesn’t clarify what those “legal” reasons are.
“So yes, I fell in love with Johannes,” Whaite further explained. “I still love Johannes. Of course I do.”
Whaite had already been in a relationship with graphic designer Paul Atkins at the time. The couple got engaged in 2017, and as of 2023, they’ve been together for 15 years. Thus, Whaite’s newfound love for Radebe did interfere in his relationship with Atkins. The reality TV star noted in the interview:
“You go through life being told that you’ll fall in love with someone, you’ll get married, you’ll have children, and that’s it. But love can’t just be directed to one person. The heart can easily split into two or three or four. Those loves aren’t mutually exclusive.”
While many couples have agreed-upon open relationships, it appears that Whaite and Atkins experienced some rough times and “spent some time apart” while he competed on Strictly and developed feelings for Radebe.
In the end, however, Whaite concluded that he needed to preserve his relationship with Atkins above all else. “I look at [Atkins] and what he’s put up with over the years and how he’s nurtured me and stood by me, and who would throw that away? I couldn’t,” Whaite said. “And also for [Radebe], he needs to move on with his life too.”
It sounds like Whaite has been on a roller-coaster ride of emotions in the past few years, but we hope that the dust has now settled for all of the parties involved.
Bernardo Sim is the deputy editor of Out, as well as a writer and content creator. Born in Brazil, he currently lives in South Florida. You can follow him on Instagram at @bernardosim.
Bernardo Sim is the deputy editor of Out, as well as a writer and content creator. Born in Brazil, he currently lives in South Florida. You can follow him on Instagram at @bernardosim.
