Baby Reindeer star Richard Gadd investigated for dating trans actress who auditioned for show

I told him I was interested in auditioning and asked him to get in touch with my agent at the time. "But there is one other thing," he said. “What?" I replied. "I find you really attractive."

— Reece Lyons (@reecelyons_) April 16, 2024

"He began to tell me about his upcoming Netflix show that he had written. The role in question was that of his ex-girlfriend, a trans woman. 'I didn't treat her the best,' he said. I wondered what that meant," she wrote in a posted on X (formerly Twitter) about their initial meeting after one of her shows at a bar.

When Lyons said she'd like to audition for the role and gave him her agent's contact information, Gadd admitted that he found her attractive and wanted to date her.

Lyons said she felt troubled by the idea that she was meant to audition to play his trans ex-girlfriend that he had mistreated and also date him in real life at the same time, but continued to talk to him.

“What if I say, no?” I asked myself.

“Does that mean he would feel slighted, and I wouldn’t get the chance to audition?”

I decided to say yes, and quickly found myself pulled back into his emotional chaos again.

— Reece Lyons (@reecelyons_) April 16, 2024

When she suggested that he might be fetishing trans women, Lyons says that Gadd was "highly defensive and dismissive."

"I said that I didn’t think the conflation of the upcoming audition and dating each other at the same time was wise, and he said that he understood," she tweeted. "But two weeks later, he spontaneously called me and said that he wanted to try dating again."

Lyons wrote that she was afraid if she said no, she wouldn't get the chance to audition, so she accepted. The two went on four dates between October and November 2021, and broke up in December. Once Lyons auditioned in March 2022, she was told that Netflix had chosen someone else. While Gadd gave feedback to production on audition tapes, he did not have ultimate approval in the casting process.

Inform your agent. They can then relay the information to the casting director. This industry has a duty of care to protect you and safeguard your emotional well-being throughout the process.

— Reece Lyons (@reecelyons_) April 16, 2024

After clarifying that she was not in any way a victim of abuse in the relationship, she closed out with a message to young actors: "If you are ever involved in a casting process where somebody is simultaneously conflating a work opportunity with a dating dynamic, set boundaries. If they disrespect your boundaries, or attempt to persuade you to alter them after you have set them, then please tell somebody."

Clerkenwell Films, which produced the series, investigated Lyons' claims and decided that "casting decisions were not compromised" and Gadd behaved professionally.

Baby Reindeer is streaming on Netflix.