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Here are the Couples Participating in Netflix's 'The Ultimatum: Queer Love'
We can't wait for 'The Ultimatum: Queer Love!'

The Ultimatum is one of Netflix’s best reality romance shows. It follows a group of couples, each with one member who wants to make an ultimatum to get married. After the ultimatum is issued, “in just over eight weeks, each couple will either get married, or get out, after they each choose new potential partners in a life-changing opportunity to get a glimpse of two different futures.”
This new queer version will see queer couples made up of women and nonbinary people who are at crossroads in their relationships — and it looks messy as all get out!
We love queer drama, and few reality shows have the messiness and drama of The Ultimatum. (Please, Netflix, give us queer seasons of Love Is Blind next!) Now, we have a full trailer of the season, the release date, and info about the couples participating.The Ultimatum: Queer Love debuts on Netflix on May 24 with four episodes. Four more will be released the following week on May 31, with the finale and reunion airing June 7.
Scroll through to meet the couples who will be participating.
Xander and Vanessa
Xander (she/her/they) issued the Ultimatum to Vanessa
Yolly and Mal
Yolly (she/her) issued the Ultimatum to Mal (she/her/they)
Lexi and Rae
Lexi (she/her) issued the Ultimatum to Rae (she/her)
Sam and Aussie
Sam (she/her) issued the Ultimatum to Aussie (Aussie)
Mildred and Tiff
Mildred (she/her) issued the Ultimatum to Tiff (they/them)
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Mey Rude
Mey Rude is a journalist and cultural critic who has been covering queer news for a decade. The transgender, Latina lesbian lives in Los Angeles with her fiancée.
Mey Rude is a journalist and cultural critic who has been covering queer news for a decade. The transgender, Latina lesbian lives in Los Angeles with her fiancée.