11 Excellent Reasons to Date a Fem Guy
Fem guys get a lot of undeserved flak in the dating world. Many gay/bi men are only interested in "masc" guys. A real "manly man" who spends his free time chopping firewood while drinking whiskey, neat. While there's nothing wrong with a man like that, there's more to masculinity than hair, muscles, hand grip, and an inability to cry. So I challenge all those "No Fems" men to expand their mind, and stop being, well ... basic. Here are 11 reasons you should date a guy who identifies as fem (in case you needed reasons).
(And of course, as you'll see in the imagery ahead, 'fem guys' all have different vibes, styles, and looks!)
1. He’s not afraid to express himself
He won't bottle up his emotions or hold back tears, which leads to problems. He'll tell you what he's feeling.
2. He’s got tough skin
There's a good chance he was bullied in high school for "acting gay", which probably thickened his skin.
3. He can actually dance well
And pop that booty like no other.
4. He takes care of himself
He manscapes, works out regularly, and keeps himself looking and feeling as healthy as possible.
5. He’s sensitive
Which, no, is not a bad thing. It makes him more empathetic, less judgmental, and more honest.
6. He knows how to communicate
He will not only tell you what's on his mind, but also say it in a manner that is beneficial to both you and him.
7. He’s fashionable
He always knows what's hip and what's in.
8. He can (probably) cook
Which beats the hell out of your hot pockets and canned soup.
9. You can borrow his grooming products
His lotions, hair gels, and shampoo will definitely be nicer than yours.
10. He’s beautiful
Call him whatever you want: Sexy, beautiful, stunning. He's all of it.
11. He’s just as “man” as you are
You know... 'cause he's a man.
