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OUT100: Emma González, Newsmaker of the Year

“Every time you go to a Pride event, it’s a celebration of love, but it’s also a remembrance of everything that started the beginning of being accepted in this society, which doesn’t always want to accept us.”

On February 14, Emma Gonzalez's life was forever changed when a gunman walked into her high school, Marjory Stoneman Douglas, in Parkland, Fla. But her story didn't end after the news trucks moved on. In response to the tragedy, she and her classmates organized a protest so powerful, it has grown into a national movement. A month after the tragedy ripped through their school, students led the March for Our Lives protest in Washington, D.C. There, Gonzalez took to the podium and offered a silent tribute that lasted 6 minutes and 20 seconds -- the same amount of time it took for 17 of her classmates and teachers to be killed, and 17 more to be injured. Her moving gesture quickly made headlines and became the most talked-about moment from the daylong demonstration.

The massive turnout for the march was a surprising show of support surrounding grisly acts that, for too long, had been accepted with apathy in our country. Even Gonzalez was struck by how large the crowd was. "I got up onstage, and none of us could go anywhere," she says. "If we wanted to move, we couldn't because of how many people were there."

If that protest were all Gonzalez and her classmates had accomplished this year, it would have been a landmark achievement. But their work to change the national conversation about gun violence continues, and it energizes Gonzalez to meet more people, advocate for gun law reform, and bring to the forefront issues facing communities of color.

"One of the coolest experiences for me was the Peace March in Chicago on Friday, June 15," she says, explaining that activists in Chicago organized marches every Friday to combat the city's high rate of gun violence in the summer months. "We marched through the streets and neighborhoods, and we were all chanting, screaming, and singing. And we brought the press with us to shine more light on the event."

Before the Parkland shooting, Gonzalez was already involved with advocacy and organizing, having served as the president of her school's Gay Straight Alliance during her senior year, working with about 30 students. "Thirty kids is a lot for a school with 3,000 people," she says. "Most of them weren't out, but they came anyway. They had shoulders to cry on. We had a really good group -- they were able to help me, and I was able to help them."

As part of her GSA duties, Gonzalez taught her classmates about queer milestones, and she feels passionately that younger queer generations should learn from the past. "They can learn the history of our culture, and our community, and the fight, and the struggles," she says. "Every time you go to a Pride event, it's a celebration of love, but it's also a remembrance of everything that started the beginning of being accepted in this society, which doesn't always want to accept us."

Gonzales_emma_out100_101618_0321_fIndeed, not everyone celebrated the arrival of a bold and confident queer Latinx woman on the national stage. Almost immediately after Gonzalez's first public appearances, trolls began attacking her online. In a Facebook post, Congressman Steve King's campaign (R-Iowa) linked her to communist Cuba for wearing a patch of the country's flag on her jacket. Gonzalez, whose father is Cuban, defended herself and cited the elected official's racist comments. "If somebody's trying to challenge my Cuban identity, they are usually -- if not obviously -- racist," she said. "Look at the things he said, and what he called me. What he said was bottom-of-the barrel. He was not even trying. He went out of his way lots of times to call out various people and say things about minority groups."

To Gonzalez, identity is fluid and more encompassing than basic labels. "Identity to me means the way that you describe yourself when someone says, 'Describe yourself,'" she explains. "If I were to describe my identity, I would say that I am half Cuban, I'm bald, I'm bisexual, I'm 5-foot-2, I like to write, I like to partake in the arts, and I like to crochet. I would hope that if I were introducing myself to somebody, through those things, they would be able to get an understanding of who I am."

Despite so much sadness in one year, Gonzalez feels hopeful for the future. "There are so many people who are coming forward and being like, 'Yep. I am not straight. I am not cis. And I am here to stay,'" she says. "Our society doesn't need to be cis, heteroromantic, heteronormative, and heterosexual all the time. We have these different people, and they're beautiful, and I'm just so glad to know that there are so many people who are out. And even if they're in the closet, they still know who they are."

And Gonzalez's determination to prevent others from experiencing the horrors of a mass shooting will stretch long after this year. "The fact is that gun violence is still prevalent in our society," she says. "We're going to be fighting for this until it's fixed."

Photography by Martin Schoeller.

Styling by Michael Cook.

Makeup: Zac Hart using Charlotte Tilbury Cosmetics

Photographed at Schoeller Studio, New York City

Sweater by Acne Studios.
Pants by A.P.C.

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Daniel Reynolds is the editor-in-chief of Out and an award-winning journalist who focuses on the intersection between entertainment and politics. This Jersey boy has now lived in Los Angeles for more than a decade.

Daniel Reynolds is the editor-in-chief of Out and an award-winning journalist who focuses on the intersection between entertainment and politics. This Jersey boy has now lived in Los Angeles for more than a decade.

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Queer Eye's Jeremiah Brent has tips for changing your home — and heart

Queer Eye’s newest member, interior designer Jeremiah Brent, offers advice on making a home feel personal

In the new Las Vegas-set season of Netflix’s Queer Eye, the Fab Five walk into the home of a former showgirl, Paula. The scene is sponsored by microplastics, jokes Jonathan Van Ness, a nod to the now-seamstress’s materials spilling around her living room, including plastic flowers on the walls.

Making over Paula’s home was the inaugural challenge for Jeremiah Brent, who stepped into the shoes of Bobby Berk following the design guru’s departure last season from the hit reality TV show, which seeks to improve the lives of its “hero” subjects.

Through their initial meeting, Brent noted how the light of the retired Vegas entertainer had “dulled down a bit,” which was reflected in her environment. To bring back her sparkle, he worked to find the things that brought her joy — “color and life and movements and birds and floral” — and physically manifest them as a “beautiful prism” of “who she was as a person.”

“I’m not somebody who reaches for large-scale floral wallpaper and lime green cabinets, but that’s exactly who she is,” he says. When Paula, upon seeing the transformation, turned to Brent and said he “did so good,” the validation showed on his face. “I think what every creative hopefully is looking for,” he says of Paula’s response. “I don’t want you to just tell me that a space is pretty. I want you to tell me that this space feels personal. That’s, for me, the mark of true success.”

Brent is no stranger to the world of reality TV — or design, for that matter. His breakout role was on The Rachel Zoe Project in 2011, when he worked as the designer’s styling associate. He later starred in Nate & Jeremiah by Design and The Nate & Jeremiah Home Project alongside his husband, fellow celebrity interior designer Nate Berkus. He has operated his own design firm, Jeremiah Brent Design, since 2012; some of those projects are featured here in this spread.

Transformations from Jeremiah Brent Design: Before and AfterTransformations from Jeremiah Brent Design: before (L) and after (R).Nicole Franzen

As a married gay man with two children on reality TV, Brent has been a force for queer visibility before. But joining Queer Eye — a pioneering production that has sparked mainstream conversations about LGBTQ+ people since its first iteration on Bravo in 2003 — marked a milestone for Brent.

“It really felt like I had come home in a big way,” he says. “It’s kind of the blend of everything that I’ve been learning and doing, both professionally and personally over the last decade-plus. And to come on to such a queer-positive show that’s all about connection and community and outreach and understanding and warmth and kindness, it’s kind of the epitome of everything I want to be doing.”

Brent is “in love” with his Queer Eye castmates. As a fledgling Fab Five member, he often watched in awe at the work they did to transform lives — and the topics they were able to broach on TV with people of different backgrounds and political views in the process. “These four have really been…on the forefront of some of the most difficult conversations [about LGBTQ+ people]. It’s one of the most difficult times for us historically, and it’s only going to get more complicated. And they do so with such empathy and kindness.”

“When television is really powerful is when you can learn something in the safety of your own living room — where you can see people come together, where you can watch people fumble around pronouns and try to understand [people from other walks of life],” he says. “As long as there’s empathy and connection, which is what the show is about, I think it’s never been more important.”

And about that living room. As LGBTQ+ people face new challenges in acceptance and safety in the outside world, Brent knows the importance of creating a sanctuary. In providing expertise on interior design, “my answers are never going to be rooted in trends or what the color of the year is,” he says. He prioritizes the personal.

“Pick three moments of your day that are important, and create your space around those moments, because it intrinsically makes your home feel so much more personal…regardless of what pillows you have,” he advises. “All that stuff is fun, but if you don’t live in your home, like properly live in your home, then it’s never gonna give you the security you need.”

A home should reflect a person’s past, present, and future, Brent says. The past is embodied by objects tied to personal history that “spark joy.” The present should be a “direct reflection of wherever you’re at in your life.” And the future is embodied by holding space for what’s possible. “If you don’t leave space for the new, it’s a lot harder to bring the new in and actually feel it and see it,” he says.

Transformations from Jeremiah Brent Design: Before and AfterTransformations from Jeremiah Brent Design: before (L) and after (R).Shade Degges

Winter presents its own opportunities for evolution. “I’m always changing my house, which is why my children want to kill me,” he laughs. “We change the ceremony of our day based on the seasons, which is something that’s important…. So I’ll pull a lamp in…thick cable…pillows, throws everywhere, like that real comfort moment. And I think art especially is something we’re always changing, especially seasonally. Like little changes. I don’t think you need to go out and spend a ton of money; that’s not the point. But it is nice to walk around and be delighted by something in a different way.”

Brent cites the Living Spaces furniture retail chain as a personal go-to resource, as well as e-commerce sites like Amazon, Chairish, and his “supernova,” Etsy. “I have found some of the most amazing artisans on Etsy…. You can kind of dream things up and they can make it for you,” he says.

But Brent also appreciates “the joys of in-person retail,” which were revived on Queer Eye when he brought Paula to Jewelry & Mineral of Las Vegas. “We literally cried our way through that crystal store for like three hours…. We had the best time,” he shares. He has a personal connection to the store. Forgoing floral displays for their wedding, he and his husband opted for crystals purchased there instead.

“That sense of discovery is my favorite — like going to old vintage shops and these old antique marts and finding things,” he says. “That hunt for me is still my favorite thing in the world.”

For Brent, getting out there — on Queer Eye, at the crystal store, in the homes of others — is the point. “Now more than ever, people need to talk to each other,” he says. “You need to talk to people who don’t agree with us. We need to get out there, we need to be seen, and we need to be heard, and I don’t plan on going anywhere.”

This article is part of the Out January/February issue, which hits newsstands February 4. Support queer media and subscribe— or download the issue through Apple News, Zinio, Nook, or PressReader starting January 23.

JULIET (BEFORE); SHADE DEGGES (AFTER); COURTESY JEREMY BRENT DESIGN

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