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Out100 | Voices

Out and loud, Brian Sims makes waves in LGBTQ+ advocacy

The legislator turned political consultant shares his story during and after his time in the Pennsylvania House of Representatives, championing the next wave of LGBTQ+ politicians and activists.


30 Years, 30 Stories: join us in celebrating the 30th anniversary of Out100 with our Voices essays, featuring powerful personal narratives from past honorees that have shaped the LGBTQ+ community. Unlock the Out100 Vault to explore additional stories and reflect on three decades of progress and resilience.

This month's Democratic National Convention featured electrifying, inspiring, and engaging speakers. But the third day was the most impactful to me—when LGBTQ+ rights were front and center on that stage, with Human Rights Campaign's Kelley Robinson affirming at the podium, "Equality without exception. Joy without exception. And when we fight, we win."

It's a fight Brian Sims knows too well. As the first out gay Pennsylvania state legislator, Brian has never shied away from advocating for others.

"It's busy times," Brian says with a chuckle, a life that includes spending time with his dog and fiancé. But being busy is nothing new for Brian. As the first openly gay man elected to the Pennsylvania House of Representatives, Sims has always been at the forefront of the fight for equality. "When I joined the legislature, I knew I wanted to pursue advancing LGBTQ+ rights and civil through allyship," he reflects. And this wasn't just a vague concept for him – it was a strategy rooted in action.

Brian's approach to allyship was about more than just standing in solidarity but actively taking on the fights of others as his own. "I wasn't going to wait for the women in the House to stand up every time sexist legislation was introduced. I could stand up and say something," he explains. "And I wasn't going to wait for my colleagues of color to have to use their political capital talking about their experiences. I could do that." This early commitment to being a vocal ally defined his first term and set the tone for how he would approach his role as a legislator.

This dedication and historic win in Pennsylvania led to Brian being recognized as an Out100 honoree in 2013. However, for Brian, this recognition was more than just a personal achievement; it was a reminder of the broader impact of his work. "Being nominated and receiving the recognition reminded me that this work is critically important and that it needed to be happy in other places," he says.

But with the visibility and recognition came challenges.

Brian talks candidly about the backlash he faced, particularly from his conservative colleagues, who saw him as an easy target. "I was often the scapegoat for equality, the scapegoat for civil rights," he recalls. The public pressure was so intense that Brian wore a bulletproof vest to and from his office in his final years as a legislator. "It was terrifying, going online, trying to figure out where to get one," he recalls.

The vest, a stark symbol of the threats he faced, now sits in his fiancé's parents' attic – a haunting reminder of the risks of being a visible advocate for change.

Brian's commitment to representation and visibility has only deepened despite these challenges. Over the years, he's learned that being an out legislator wasn't enough.

It's about being out in all aspects of life.

"People needed to see me being out. They needed to see me with my partners," he says. He recalled the importance of attending Pride events and including his partner in campaign ads, even when advised against it. "I knew I could push that boundary."

Today, Brian continues to fight for LGBTQ+ rights, though his focus has shifted to national advocacy. He now works as a consultant with companies, candidates, and politicians. Sims also does work with Agenda PAC, which targets the anti-LGBTQ+ legislators in America. "We're working across the country to highlight these people's terrible agendas," he says. He's also involved with Drag PAC, an initiative where some of the U.S.'s most famous drag artists use their platforms to mobilize voters against anti-trans and anti-drag legislation.

Brian's journey from state legislator to national advocate has been marked by personal growth and professional milestones. But I couldn't help myself and asked if there were considerations for a run for Congress.

"My energies are best spent trying to find, train, and help fund those that are running for Congress," he said with a smile.

As Out100 marks its 30th anniversary, Brian reflects on what it means to be part of this group of LGBTQ+ changemakers. "It is a poignant reminder that the community that I most align with, that I most identify with, is a massively diverse community," he says.

For Brian, this diversity is the community's greatest strength and the key to achieving full equality.

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Out100 | Voices

This trans activist and Out100 alum is booked, busy, and unstoppable

2023 honoree and Philadelphia activist Naiymah Sanchez on creating a bold path for trans liberation.

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If you ask Naiymah Sanchez what it means to be a force of change, she'll tell you it's not something you actively set out to do but embody through your lived experiences.

Her voice is passionate and radically rooted in her love for her community.

While she was settling into her hotel stay in New York City, I spoke with Sanchez about what it means to be a trans advocate today. With a legacy spanning over a decade, this activist, educator, and organizer made it clear that the work is far from over.

But she's ready for every challenge that comes her way.

When Naiymah Sanchez was named to the Out100 in 2023, it reflected years of grassroots work that Sanchez poured into her beloved community. As someone deeply involved in trans rights, particularly in Philadelphia, where she worked extensively with organizations like the ACLU. Sanchez says the honor felt surreal. "You never imagine that your efforts will be nationally recognized," she reflects. "The work that you're doing is also your life."

Sanchez considers herself a radical educator, always aiming to empower her community by arming them with knowledge. "To be recognized as an educator, an agitator—it lets me know that I am making strides in the community," she says, her voice brimming with pride. The work isn't about recognition but making a tangible difference for her.

While being recognized on a national platform has had its perks—more interviews, more visibility—Sanchez is quick to point out the downside.

"There's a perception in the community that now, because you've made it to the national stage, you don't need to organize with us anymore," Naiymah says, adding that it's a misconception she actively pushes back against. "By my work isn't done yet."

She's determined to prove that through every panel, training, and legislative fight. Despite the visibility, Sanchez maintains her focus on the local level, where change is often the hardest to achieve but the most necessary. She continues her advocacy with the same passion and focus she's always had, determined to stay rooted in the community she serves.

When asked how the recognition of being part of the Out100 shaped her activism, Sanchez notes that it's made her advocacy more "digestible" to a broader audience. "As radical as I am," she chuckles, "I know there are ways to navigate this work in rooms that we don't traditionally have access to."

It's a delicate balance between staying true to the roots of her activism and finding ways to make it palatable to elected officials and business leaders. But at the end of the day, her message remains the same, whether in front of a local community group or on a national panel. Sanchez's focus remains on amplifying the voices of Black trans women, a group she believes is the backbone of the LGBTQ+ movement but continues to be marginalized.

"Black trans women have always led this movement," she affirms. "We deserve to have these spaces, and we deserve to be at the table where discussions and decisions are made."

Representation has always been at the forefront of Sanchez's work. She believes that having trans bodies, especially Black and Brown trans individuals, in leadership roles is essential to changing the narrative. "It's wonderful that organizations are starting to onboard more Black trans folks," she admits. "But you can't just have one." Emphasizing diversity needs to be more than a token gesture.

Sanchez sees herself as an expert not because of a degree—she proudly notes that she didn't go to college—but because of her lived experience. "I'm a doctor in my own experience," she says, noting that her expertise comes from the years she's spent navigating the world as a trans woman and using that experience to advise on policy. She's focused on ensuring that the next generation of trans advocates has the tools, knowledge, and representation to keep pushing the movement forward.

As a leader in the fight for LGBTQ+ rights, Naiymah's work is never done. Whether it's advocating for comprehensive non-discrimination laws or pushing for the decriminalization of sex work, she remains laser-focused on policy changes that will improve the lives of queer and trans individuals.

"The goal is to get people out to vote and engaged," she says. "In Pennsylvania, we're on a two-year legislative cycle, so if we don't get these bills passed now, we'll have to start all over again."

In addition to her legislative work, Sanchez has been busy traveling the world, recently returning from a panel in Germany where she discussed the criminalization of sex work and its impact on HIV transmission in marginalized communities. "I'm booked and busy now," she says with a laugh, though it's clear that her schedule isn't slowing her down anytime soon.

As the Out100 celebrates its 30th anniversary, Naiymah reflects on what it means to be part of this influential group. "We don't do this work to be recognized, but it does feel good," she admits. "It feels good to be valued and seen."

For Naiymah Sanchez, being an Out100 honoree is a reminder that her work, while often grueling and thankless, is making a difference. But for her, the recognition isn't the end goal—it's just another step in the journey toward true equality and liberation.

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Marie-Adélina de la Ferrière

Marie-Adélina de la Ferrière is the Community Editor at equalpride, publisher of The Advocate, Out, Out Traveler, Plus, and Pride.com. A Haitian-American trans woman, she tirelessly champions voices from the LGBTQ+ community, creating a vibrant community engagement approach that infuses each story with a dynamic and innovative perspective. Like and follow her on social: @ageofadelina.

Marie-Adélina de la Ferrière is the Community Editor at equalpride, publisher of The Advocate, Out, Out Traveler, Plus, and Pride.com. A Haitian-American trans woman, she tirelessly champions voices from the LGBTQ+ community, creating a vibrant community engagement approach that infuses each story with a dynamic and innovative perspective. Like and follow her on social: @ageofadelina.