The bisexual comedy queen who is unfiltered, unstoppable, and always ahead of the curve
From the comedy stage to starring in hit shows like Roseanne and Pose, Sandra Bernhard reflects on her work and being part of the inaugural Out100 list.
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I can't remember the first time I saw Sandra Bernhard on television. Still, I vividly remember how bold, brash, and ahead of the curve she was.
She brought that same energy to our chat. And with her unmistakable candor, Sandra reminisced about her storied career and what it means to be part of the LGBTQ+ community today.
In 1994, when Sandra was first named in the inaugural Out100 list, her world was different. "I was deep into it, living my life, performing a lot, doing a lot of live shows," she muses. "It was years and years before social media, so people could just be fresh and original and do their thing without the scrutiny and the microscope of today's world." She was also in the midst of her groundbreaking role on Roseanne as Nancy, the first recurring bisexual character on a major TV network.
"Roseanne was very adventurous and way ahead of the curve back then," she recalls. "We just wanted to do a character that was really fun and quirky." Though the character was groundbreaking in terms of bi-representation, Roseanne's Nancy was about existing beyond her queerness. "That's what I love about my work," Sandra affirms. "It's always assuming that everybody else is already caught up with us."
For Sandra, it wasn't about breaking barriers or pushing boundaries but about being herself. "I never felt like I was doing something heroic by being who I was," she says. "I was always out, always authentic."
That sense of authenticity has been a hallmark of Sandra's career, spanning over decades, and she has tackled roles in everything from cult comedies to serious dramas. Among her most recent roles was in the groundbreaking series Pose, covering the 1980s and early '90s New York City ballroom scene. Her character was one that Sandra brought her personal experiences to, seeing it all from the AIDS epidemic to the present-day battles for trans rights. "I've always tried to do roles that align with what I believe," she says. "For me, it wasn't about doing something special."
"Trans people are my family, people I love and have a total connection with."
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But Sandra is never one to rest on her laurels. She's set to appear in the second season of Disney's Percy Jackson and the Olympians. "It's always amazing to get another role," she says, relishing the opportunity to dive into a fantasy world. "I had to get my face molded for the show… They're making some insane contraption for me and Margaret Cho. I think we're all supposed to be one character. It's a whole other adventure!"
And there's more on the horizon. Sandra is gearing up for a series of performances, including her annual run at Joe's Pub in New York City, where she's known for her sharp wit, incisive commentary, and a knack for summing up the year's events. "I do this every year, a kind of marathon of shows," she explains. "I get to sum up the whole year, and there's so much happening politically."
And Sandra's thoughts on the political and cultural landscape are as sharp as ever.
Outside of her professional life, Sandra is surprisingly leveled. "I love doing day-to-day things," she shares, enjoying everything from shopping at the grocery store to cooking and doing laundry. "I love that insular feeling of being with family and doing things that ground me daily."
Reflecting on her place in the Out100 and what it means to be part of this legacy, Sandra is as thoughtful as ever. "It means so much," she says. I really just want to be a part of the grooviness, goodness, and creativity the LGBTQ+ community is constantly at the forefront of."
And for Sandra, that's what it's all about. Being part of something bigger, something transformative, and something real. She's a force of nature, a trailblazer, and, most importantly, a storyteller who's always ready to push the envelope just a little bit further.
As she says, "I'm halfway to my destination. So if you want to come along, just jump in the back seat."