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Congressman-Elect Ritchie Torres Is a Fighter, Now Fighting in DC

The history-making Bronx native, and Out100 honoree, is ready to get back to work.

Before Ritchie Torres became the first gay Afro-Latinx man elected to Congress in November, where he will represent New York, the Bronx native's grandfather projected that he would leave an impact on those around him.

"My grandfather would tell me as a child, 'Ritchie you are going to be somebody one day,'" Torres explains to Out. At the time, the younger thought he'd be a teacher when he grew up. "He always had more confidence in me than I had in myself." And it turns out he was right.

In high school, the teen discovered Moot Court, a competition that brings students together to test their debate skills by arguing a case before a panel of judges. The school club is ultimately what led the 2020 Out100 honoree down the path of law and activism and made for a high point in his early life. But college brought on a low point.

"I began abusing substances. I even lost my best friend to an overdose," Torres says. "And I found myself struggling with my sexuality. There were moments when I thought of taking my own life." The struggle saw Torres go through severe depression and eventually drop out during his sophomore year.

"At the beginning of my career, I was hesitant to speak openly about my struggles with depression," he explains. "But over time, as I became more secure in my own skin, I was not only willing but I felt obligated to speak openly and honestly about my struggles. I felt as a public figure I could play a role in breaking the stigma that often surrounds us. As an elected official, I have a platform and so why not use it to raise awareness about something as fundamental to all of us as mental health?"

He continues, "Not everyone can connect to each aspect of life, right? Not everyone is LGBTQ+. Not everyone is Latino. Not everyone is Black. Not everyone grew up poor. Not everyone grew up in the Bronx. Not everyone is a Millennial. But all of us have mental health. All of us have had struggles with mental health or know someone in our lives who has struggled with mental health. It's a common experience and I felt it was important for me as a public official to make it crystal clear that I struggle with depression and it's not something of which I'm ashamed. I have no shame in admitting that I take an antidepressant every day. I feel no shame in admitting that I will not be here today if it were not for mental healthcare, if it were not for the stability it gave me in my moment of greatest crisis. I want for my constituents, and for every American, the same access to health care that transformed my life, that set me on a trajectory that ultimately led to the United States Congress."

With his ascent to Congress, Torres is set to fill the seat for New York's 15th Congressional District that was left by Representative Jose Serrano -- the Democrat retired this year after 16 terms in office. Previously, Torres had served as the NYC council member for the 15th district since being elected in 2013, when he'd made history as the youngest ever on the council. He was 25 at the time. Now, at 32, he's continuing to push forward.

Politically, he is a proponent of police reform and has called for accountability and oversight for all police departments -- in line with much of the public sentiment following the Black Lives Matter protests this summer. Earlier this year, he called for the resignation of Ed Mullins, president of the NYPD's Sergeants Benevolent Association after Mullins tweeted that Torres was a "first-class whore." It was taken by many as a homophobic dogwhistle. Mullins later deleted the tweet and insisted his comments weren't about Torres's sexuality.

Torres also sparred with the notriously homophobic politician Ruben Diaz Sr., his opponent in the primary election. In his tumultuous career, Diaz has referred to queer people as "cursed" and voted against legalizing same-sex marriage in 2009 and 2011. He also claimed that the NY City Council is being "controlled by the homosexual community."

"The voters of the South Bronx were presented with a stark choice between Diaz Sr. and myself," Torres explains. "Diaz Sr. represented the past and I represent the future. He represents the politics of fear and I represent the politics of a multiracial multi-ethnic, inclusive democracy. He is the worst homophobe in New York politics and LGBTQ+ public service. In the end, the voters not only chose me but rejected Ruben Diaz Sr. so decisively that he went into retirement, which is exactly where he belongs."

Torres's victory is a part of a larger shift in LGBTQ+ representation in American politics, including politicians that are increasingly intersectonal. But Torres didn't run a campaign based on representation.

"I assembled a team that knew how to run a campaign effectively and that knew how to adapt to environments like [the current pandemic]," he explains. "I knew from day one that voters were gonna choose the candidate who could speak most compellingly to their bread and butter concerns, health and housing, schools and jobs. I ran as a fighter. I said to the voters, 'I'm one of you, and I'm going to fight for you.' And the voters of the South Bronx saw themselves and their own struggles in my story, in my lived experiences. I went on the strength of my personal story and my record in the city council. They wanted a fighter and a pragmatic problem solver, who was born, bred, and battle tested in the Bronx."

One of Torres's highest priorities in his new position is to expand programs like the child tax credit so that we "put more money in the pockets of families struggling during" the pandemic.

"The child tax credit is the most powerful tool we have for ending child poverty in America," he says. "The present structure of the child tax credit is so progressive that it excludes one-third of American families. And in the South Bronx, two-thirds of American families are excluded from the full credit. So if we were to extend the child tax credit to the poorest families, we would cut child poverty by 40 percent in the span of one year. Where you are born and where you live should never be a barrier."

Torres can't help but smile thinking about how far he's come from in his life, but he also knows how far there is to go toward building a better life for all of his constituents.

A version of this piece was originally published in this year's Out100 issue, out on newstands 12/1. The issue has four cover stars: Janelle Monae, Wilson Cruz, Joe Mantello, and Janaya Khan. To get your own copy directly, support queer media and subscribe -- or download yours for Amazon, Kindle, Nook, or Apple News +. The first-ever Out100 Symposium, titled "How Do We Come Back From This" was hosted by Janaya Khan. Watch the first-ever Out100 Virtual Honoree Induction Ceremony on the Out100 Live landing page.

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Brian Sims and Alex Drakos say 'I do,' urge other queer couples to wed before Trump era

See wedding photos of the LGBTQ+ activist and his partner, who seized the right to marry while they still have it.


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When Brian Sims proposed to his (now husband) Alex Drakos in 2023, the plan initially had been to wed in September 2025. But that plan began to unravel in June 2024 following President Biden’s shaky debate with Donald Trump, which left the Democratic Party and the nation grappling with an uncertain vision for the future.

“The day after the debate that went so disastrously for Biden, the two of us sat down and had a really serious discussion around what we were gonna do if Trump won and what it would look like,” says Drakos, a Pfizer employee and U.C.Berkeley graduate. “…We had said, ‘Would we be worried that our marriage would no longer be possible on the timeline that we thought it would be?’”

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Drakos is referring to the fear that, under a second Trump administration, many hard-won LGBTQ+ rights like marriage equality could become undone. While they experienced “a lot of hope riding into the election” after Biden made way for Vice President Kamala Harris as the Democratic candidate, Trump’s victory in November forced them to revisit their timeline.

Drakos recalls thinking after Election Day, “We know we want to get married, and it's very doable to get it done before Trump takes office and any expected changes start to occur. So why not do it?” That both of their parents called to express the same sentiment reinforced their conviction.

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So do it they did. Officiated by Julian Cyr, an out Massachusetts state senator and friend, the pair wed December 21 in a small ceremony in the Massachusetts State House alongside their parents as witnesses.

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Sims — a former member of the Pennsylvania House of Representatives and the current CEO of Agenda PAC, which advocates for LGBTQ+ representation in politics — says they chose the location of the golden-domed state capitol for its historic role in the fight for nationwide marriage equality.

Massachusetts was the first state in the United States to recognize same-sex marriages in 2004. Thus, it pre-dated the 2015 Obergefell SCOTUS ruling recognizing nationwide marriage equality, and it was where the couple felt their marriage would be most protected in the case of this decision’s repeal. There were romantic reasons for the Bay State wedding as well. In 2021 and just a ferry ride away, Sims and Drakos first met during Bear Week at the Provincetown Tea Dance.

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Held just days before Christmas, the ceremony itself was “pretty incredible,” shares Drakos. It had snowed in Boston the day before, causing a delay for the flight of Sims’s parents, who arrived two hours before the ceremony. State House employees opened up the balcony for the pair to snap photos with the Boston skyline as a backdrop. They conducted the ceremony there too.

“It was around 10 degrees, so everyone was pretty resilient in coming out there and kind to spend the time,” Drakos says. “Julian pretty quickly [went] through what were beautifully prepared remarks. And then he surprised us by bringing us into sort of an antechamber for the governor's office — and there's a beautiful fireplace, an incredible Christmas tree, there's pictures of women of color who are civil rights icons plastered all throughout the walls there. It was just a wonderful time with our parents, who were there to actually do the witness portion of it. And we're lucky that they were there to do that. And then, we had some champagne all together and went off for a wonderful dinner as well.”

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With a laugh, Drakos admits it was the “most champagne I've had in a single day in maybe ever.”

Sims adds, “It was obviously something we felt like we had to do because of the times and things that could change, and we wanted to make sure we had the opportunity. But I will tell you that as soon as it was done, we both recognized that having the intimate moment with our parents was a lot more special than we had maybe even considered that it would be…. It's impossible to sort of think about the arc of history with respect to LGBTQ+ marriage equality and not think about how deeply special it was to have our moms and dads there.”

Brian Sims PA small gay wedding married to Alex Drakos

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Brian Sims PA small gay wedding married to Alex Drakos

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Sims and Drakos still plan to have a large celebration this September in Connecticut, where Drakos’s parents hail from. “We didn't exchange the vows that we want to give to one another in front of all of our friends and family, and so we'll save it for that [event],” Sims promises.

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But the pair also have a message for other unmarried queer couples fearful for the future: Seriously consider taking the plunge now.

“What I recommend for all queer couples is the same [advice] we took ourselves. Currently, while it is not the absolute 100 percent best legal environment for LGBTQ+ people to solidify their relationships and their partnerships, it is significantly better than it is going to be in the future, maybe the near future,” Sims says. “And so right now while we still have the fruits of what so many advocates fought years for, we should avail ourselves of them while we continue to fight to defend them and expand them. But [these] are very treacherous times we're going into, and having the protections of the law…[is] an assurance that I think everyone deserves. And if you're considering that, you should too.”

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In addition to marriage, the couple recommends that rainbow families take a serious look at financial matters, including insurance and living wills, as preparation for the future. They should also seriously consider changing careers and moving to states where LGBTQ+ and women’s rights are codified, particularly for families with transgender children, they advise.

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And for allies, it’s not enough to send a congratulatory message on social media when queer friends wed, they say. Be cognizant of why they married — and what’s at stake for their future. “Our marriage is worth fighting for, and we hope all of the people that are excited for us and glad for us and congratulate us are also echoing that in their actions — and not just their ethics and their morals and their values but in their actual actions,” Sims says. “Our marriage is under attack and who we are is under attack. And so to support, to congratulate us, and to be grateful that we were able to do this comes with the attendant responsibility of respecting it, protecting it, and fighting for it.”

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See more moments of the happy union from photographer Ryan Stranz ahead.

Brian Sims PA small gay wedding married to Alex Drakos

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Brian Sims PA small gay wedding married to Alex Drakos

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Brian Sims PA small gay wedding married to Alex Drakos

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Brian Sims PA small gay wedding married to Alex Drakos

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Brian Sims PA small gay wedding married to Alex Drakos

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Brian Sims PA small gay wedding married to Alex Drakos

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Brian Sims PA small gay wedding married to Alex Drakos

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Brian Sims PA small gay wedding married to Alex Drakos

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