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Read the latest commentary, news, and cultural discussions regarding queer sexuality, sexual health, and adult entertainment.
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Sex & Relationships

Go Ask Alex: Hairy vs. smooth butt—which do gay guys prefer?

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Sex & Relationships

How to land a daddy: 13 expert tips for scoring a date with a silver fox

Older men are sexy, and our LGBTQ+ dating experts demystify how to find one and cultivate an age-gap relationship.

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Sex & Relationships

Single and nonbinary? Here are 11 expert-approved dating tips

Modern dating is a quagmire, especially for nonbinary folks. But these LGBTQ+ experts have advice for going from dating disasters to a relationship success story.

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Sex & Relationships

Go Ask Alex: I love being gay but live in the Middle East. What do I do?

Columnist Alexander Cheves responds to a reader who lives in a place where he feels he is "killing a part of myself" by hiding his gay identity.

David Geffen and David Armstrong, aka Donovan Michaels, at a basketball game in Los Angeles
Celebrities

Billionaire David Geffen finalizes messy divorce with ex-husband

The couple was notoriously private about their relationship, which has officially come to an end.

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Sex & Relationships

Go Ask Alex: I'm lonely but afraid I'll go to hell for being gay. What do I do?

Columnist Alexander Cheves responds to a reader who wants a same-sex partner but is fearful of Biblical consequences.

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Sex & Relationships

Go Ask Alex: Can I wear fetishwear to a nice restaurant?

Columnist Alexander Cheves gives advice to a reader confused about whether a Nasty Pig padlock necklace is appropriate in formal settings.

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Sex & Relationships

Go Ask Alex: How do I get my partner to be more dominant in bed?

Columnist Alexander Cheves gives advice to a reader seeking help in bedroom communication — specifically, in conveying he wants a turn as the "passenger princess."

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Opinion

Writing 'Kink For Dummies' and the joys of our uncontainable lusts

In this essay, queer feminist writer and activist Dr. Jaime M. Grant reflects on writing Kink for Dummies and why queer lust and pleasure have always been part of LGBTQ+ resistance.

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Sex & Relationships

Go Ask Alex: Can I DM a guy I haven't seen in years?

Columnist Alexander Cheves gives advice to a reader wondering if reaching out to someone from years ago is brave or just awkward.

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Sex & Relationships

What is an 'alpine divorce'? The TikTok trend that has us wondering if straight people are OK

And how are queer couples being impacted?

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Health

Did you know over half of HIV-positive people in the world are female?

Learn more important facts like this by exploring National Women and Girls HIV/AIDS Awareness Day.

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Sex & Relationships

Go Ask Alex: I'm a straight guy. Can I be a sub for a gay dom?

Columnist Alexander Cheves gives advice to a straight reader who is taking his submissive side seriously.

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Sex & Relationships

Her AI girlfriend became 'like a drug' that consumed her life

Sarah lost sleep, forgot to eat, and missed work after forming an emotional attachment to a chatbot. Now she's sounding the alarm to others about the dangers of AI.

​Hudson Williams at the Gold House Lunar New Year event on February 12, 2026 in New York City
Celebrities

Heated Rivalry: Hudson Williams's girlfriend celebrated on V-Day post

The actor also referenced his Heated Rivalry costar, Connor Storrie, on the same Valentine's Day post.

Jessica Betts and Niecy Nash-Betts; Simon Halls and Matt Bomer; Chrishell Stause and G Flip​
Celebrities

Famous LGBTQ+ couples who are relationship goals

Love is love, and these celebrity couples are here to prove it.

​Sasha Allen in promotional image; Adore Delano and Sasha Allen at the premiere event for new Paramount Pictures film Primate in January 2026
Music

Sasha Allen drops new song—says girlfriend Adore Delano 'changed my world'

The singer-songwriter tells Out that his new song, "What It Feels Like," is the "perfect introduction to a new era of my music."

Shirtless tattooed man; Pornhub logo; Bad Bunny in poster for the 2026 Super Bowl Halftime Show
Celebrities

Bad Bunny's Super Bowl causes Pornhub search boom for 'Latino' and 'jocks'

Bad Bunny had some naughty viewers feeling hot and bothered.

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Sex & Relationships

12 ways to spice up your Valentine's Day from an LGBTQ+ sex expert

These tips will make this Valentine's Day your hottest one yet!

​Jérôme aka Horsegurl3000
Fashion

Jérôme, a.k.a. Horsegurl3000, is subverting leather garments

Out chats with the one and only @Horsegurl3000, a queer entrepreneur and designer who's building a fascinating business on social media.

Kristen Stewart in the February 4, 2017 episode of Saturday Night Live
Celebrities

​Kristen Stewart recalls why she came out on SNL, and how Trump was involved

This week marks the nine-year anniversary of Kristen Stewart coming out on Saturday Night Live.

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